MUMBAI: Actress Shivangi Verma, known for her roles in Tera Ishq Mera Fitoor, Choti Sarrdaarni, and Badass Ravi Kumar, believes that women were once forced to sacrifice their dreams due to a lack of support. However, she feels times have changed.
“A lot of the sacrifices our mothers made were because they didn’t have enough help. They had to handle everything on their own because society expected them to. Whether it was childcare or household responsibilities, they were just supposed to manage it all, which led to them quietly giving up a lot. Today, things are different. We’re having open conversations about shared responsibilities, and that’s an important shift,” she says.
Reflecting on the sacrifices her mother made, Shivangi shares, “The biggest sacrifice my mom—or any woman—shouldn’t have to make is giving up on her dreams for others. My mom put many of her aspirations aside to take care of us, and I really hope that future generations of women don’t have to make that choice. Women should be able to pursue their careers and still be present for their families without feeling like they have to pick one over the other.”
She emphasizes that women today are balancing careers, household duties, and personal lives, making it essential to accept help. “There’s no shame in it. We’re not superheroes, and it’s okay to lean on the people around us. Asking for help doesn’t make you weak—it makes you human. Women need to let go of the guilt that often comes with seeking support,” she says.
When asked if a woman’s career inevitably takes a backseat after motherhood, she acknowledges that it can feel that way. “Regardless of the field, priorities shift when you become a mother, and sometimes, it seems like your career has to pause. But it doesn’t have to be a full stop. It all depends on your support system, job flexibility, and how well you can balance both. It’s challenging, but it’s not impossible.”
She further stresses the importance of a strong support network. “Having a supportive partner, an understanding workplace, and a reliable childcare plan can make all the difference. It’s also crucial to take things step by step instead of pressuring yourself to be perfect immediately. Motherhood is a transition, and allowing yourself time to adjust is just as important as anything else,” she concludes.
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